One night this week I took part in the Diabetes UK twitter chat.
The topic for discussion was the Make The Grade campaign which looks at how
schools support children with type 1 diabetes. Most of the tweets I read
were positive, and then I read one Dads tweet that just horrified me.
The Dad lives in Manchester and has a 6-year-old
son, who was diagnosed 3 years ago.
Whilst his son can test his own sugar, he cannot inject by himself yet.
His teachers are willing to take training to administer his lunchtime injections,
but the chair of governors have intervened and stopped this happening. I just
can’t get over this; as a result Mum and Dad have to leave work daily at
lunchtime to administer their child's injection. The Dad told me“we are
lucky to have understanding employers.” I haven't been able to stop thinking
about this family ever since. Of course
I don’t know the all the facts, but if they are a simple as the Dad explained the School
Governors should hang their heads in shame.
As a result I wanted to celebrate the
wonderful people we have around us. Who have made type 1 diabetes an every day
occurrence? Like breathing. Or walking. The Christie family heroes are the
wonderful East Lancashire Children's Diabetes Team. I
tell you now, things like that would not happen on their watch. And Jacks Primary and High School (You know who you are)
These amazing people have made everyday life so
easy;
Dr. G. Inspires Jack to cope daily but also is able
to push him in the right direction if his sugar is not 100%. Jack knows there
are no flies on Dr. G he is able to tell if Jack has sneaked in a cheeky Cream
Egg on the 15th of March at 3pm. As a result Jack really does consider what he
eats. Dr.G also gives him credit for his achievements and encourages him to
manage his condition. A true inspiration to Jack.
Nurse V. is a huge family support and taught us how
to bring diabetes home, and live with it in a positive way. She is ALWAYS
on the end of the phone, or text message. And always has a solution for any
problems, she has taught us to be family experts, how to live with this in a
positive way. She once even text me in Las Vegas when we were having insulin
issues with all that wonderful American food.
Nurse A. again wonderful, Nurse A is a dietitian
and is exactly what Jack needs, you see for a diabetic Jack has an incredibly
sweet tooth. Nurse A knows this and is mentally training Jack to cope with life
as a diabetic. Where and when he can eat sugar, what are sensible choices and what
aren't. She is incredibly good at this, Jack thinks she is great but
knows she can sniff a cream egg at 100 miles. Again she is always at the end of
the phone or text and she too has sent the odd text to foreign countries when
we have had food issues.
Nurse P. Now Jack is not in his care but he was
like a guardian angel the day Jack was rushed into hospital, Nurse P was by chance
working on the children's ward covering for a colleague. It’s like fate that he
was there that day. As whilst all the other health care professionals were
flapping round, and not telling us anything Nurse P helped us through a very
difficult 48 hours. And helped us all to deal with diabetes positively. Timing
of this is critical if you can hit the ground running it makes life so much
easier. And nurse P was so positive from day 1.
Jack was in year 5 when he was diagnosed. We are so
lucky that both of Jacks Schools, primary and high school have been wonderful,
fully co-operative and could not have done enough for Jack. They not only make his School life manageable, but wonderful. Yes, my Son enjoys School in fact loves it. He engages in sport
with the full support of a wonderful P.E department. Enjoys School trips day
and has always been encouraged to attend every trip even it means staying away from home.
School have worked closely with Jacks team and taken all training necessary to
ensure Jacks School life is enjoyable and normal.
This is the first post I have ever written and felt
tearful, firstly because I will never be able to thank the East Lancs Children's
Diabetes Teams and Jack Primary and High Schools enough for being so wonderful,
inclusive and supportive, and making all of our lives as worry free, normal and
easy as possible.
Its a shame not all parents of children with
diabetes aren't getting the same deal. It makes me feel so sad, as I know the people around us have set
the grounds for Jack to have a wonderful life managing and controlling
diabetes, instead of letting it control him. A huge thank you to you all.
I had no idea you were dealing with this. And good on you for sharing. I hope it helps others too. And how fantastic your support network sounds. I hope you continue to receive positive support x x
ReplyDeleteThanks Jess and yes I am so lucky. And do you know what? There are worst things Jack could have been diagnosed with. It is manageable xx
DeleteGosh what a wonderful post, and how awful that any child should have to go through this without the full support of the adults in his life. I must say we've been lucky with our school and Brownies, they really can't do enough to support GG, and she has good friends with great parents. I can only imagine how hard it would be without all of that.
ReplyDeleteI know it breaks my heart, that poor family. Support is so important isn't it? x
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